Erica, 34 / from The Simple Chic Brunette
What would your 30 something self tell your 20 something self if you could?
I would tell myself to enjoy life (every minute of it) go out with friends more often and be more spontaneous. I would also tell myself to travel travel travel even if it’s just to another city 2 hours away or another state. Get out there and explore the world.
What do you wish you took more seriously in your 20’s?
Saving! Start saving earlier as soon you get your first real job.
What do you wish you took less seriously in your 20’s?
I was always a pretty serious young lady and pretty much took everything seriously, so the only thing I wish I would’ve taken less seriously is maybe being less serious about everything
Favorite memory from your 20’s?
I would have to say it was when I graduated with my Bachelors. I worked 30+ hours a week while in college and took 3-4 classes a semester. I graduated a bit later than normal, but I finished and it was all worth it. I have to say working while in college was not easy but it made me responsible and prepared me for my future job. The graduation celebration my parents gave me was also amazing and unforgettable. Hearing others speak kindly about me was such a lovely feeling. It really does pay to keep your mind on the prize and never ever give up.
My other favorite memory from my 20’s is when my hubby proposed to me at the Japanese Garden of the University we both attended and graduated from. It was truly a moment never to forget.
In your early 20’s where did you think you would be (work, live etc) by 30?
I think every young person sees 30 as old until you get there. It’s actually not as old as it seems. I wanted to live somewhere in Southern CA next to the ocean and work in fashion, be married and have a family.
And where were you by 30? What did your life look like?
Well sort of… I worked/work in fashion, I was/am married, I lived in So-Cal, but I didn’t have any kids yet. I don’t think planning your every life move is the way to go I feel taking life one day at a time is a better way to live. This I’ve learned as I got older.
Were you ever worried that it wouldn’t all fall into place?
Of course this is why I’ve tried to let go of all the negative thoughts and the planning and just let life happen.
What is the greatest gift about being a woman in your 30’s?
You are much more knowledgeable and are much more confident in who you are. In your 20’s you’re discovering who you are and in your 30’s you pretty much know who you are, what you like, what you want and therefore you feel wiser and more like a woman.
When you look out onto the horizon. What do you hope your life looks like at 40?
Let’s see I’d like to still be working in fashion, still be married to the love of my life, living in So-Cal and hopefully vacationing with my family of 4 once a year.
What’s a quote/ saying you try to live your life by?
“A good head and a good heart are always a formidable combination.” -Nelson Mandela
I also love the saying “Patience is a virtue” this is so true.
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